You rearrange your plans to fit theirs. You hold back your frustration, apologizing first—again. You bear the emotional load for two while your partner seems unaffected. And deep down, you start to question: Is this really what love is supposed to feel like? The answer is no.
Love shouldn’t make you feel like you’re drowning while trying to keep someone else above water.If you’ve found yourself playing the martyr in your relationship—constantly putting your needs aside, quieting your voice, and convincing yourself it’s an act of love—you’re not being selfless.
You’re being silenced. Today, I’m going to walk you through the subtle signs that you’ve slipped into this unhealthy pattern, why it’s damaging both you and your relationship, and offer nine actionable shifts you can make starting tonight to regain your power without destroying what you’ve built together.TO READ MORE, TAP HERE
